How to Talk to a Loved One About Hearing Loss (Without a Fight)
If you’re watching someone you love struggle with hearing—but they don’t seem ready to talk about it—it can feel like walking a tightrope.
You want to help.
You don’t want to upset them.
But the truth is, hearing loss affects both of you.
Conversations get shorter. Repeats get tiring. Misunderstandings become the norm. And if you’re the one doing all the adjusting, it’s easy to grow resentful or disconnected.
So how do you bring it up without starting a fight?
Try this:
💬 Start with care, not correction.
Instead of saying “You never hear me,” try:
“I’ve noticed it’s been harder for us to communicate lately. I miss being able to talk easily with you.”
💬 Make it about connection, not blame.
“It’s not just about volume—it’s about us staying close.”
💬 Share personal frustration, not criticism.
“I feel sad when I have to repeat myself a lot. I want to feel heard.”
💬 Offer help without pressure.
“Would you be open to reading something together that could help?”
This is where The Hearing Aid Handbook can make a real difference. It’s an easy read, practical without being pushy, and filled with insight from someone who’s been there.
It’s a great gift for a partner, parent, or friend who needs support—without judgment.
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